She first observed this practice when the RA set up a bi-weekly activity called "Movie Night." Although many students promised to go, only two students showed up for the first movie, and on the second no one showed up.
The RA later canceled "Movie Night." Shorty after these events occurred, the RA scheduled another meeting with students and came up with "rules" to encourage interaction between everyone located in the same hall.
One student mentioned that American students could easily not study for a final and still get a decent grade for it.
A middle-eastern student tell Rebekah that he was surprised American students can leave the classroom whenever they wanted to, because he was never allowed to do so at his old school.
She explained she was puzzled by American customs when it came to seeing or meeting each other again.
For example, many of us will say "See you soon," but do we really have the intention of speaking with some people "soon"?" and when the German student replied he wasn't feeling too well, the young girl switched subjects and pretended that he never mentioned he felt ill.The German student went on to say that she was probably trying to be caring, but in Germany that would have been escalated into a conversation.So Nathan decided to do what anthropologists do when confused by a different culture: Go live with them.She enrolled as a freshman, moved into the dorm, ate in the dining hall, and took a full load of courses.After fifteen years of teaching anthropology at a large university, Rebekah Nathan had become baffled by her own students.Their strange behavior—eating meals at their desks, not completing reading assignments, remaining silent through class discussions—made her feel as if she were dealing with a completely foreign culture.Less than 10% of college students are in a fraternity or a sorority.Some of the students mention to Rebekah they felt it was unneeded to devote so much time to one organization.Rebekah also noted that when students selected friends, it was usually by the same ethnicity or gender.Other reasons may have been because of religious views.